Sex is NOT Love

Let's make love. I want to make love to you. We made love last night. Blah, blah, blah......

This confusion makes my blood boil. This confusion often leads to women making some of the dumbest decisions of their lives. I am talking about confusing sex with love and love with sex.

Sex is purely a physical act, especially for males. Males compartmentalize almost everything in their minds. Work is in this part of the mind. Sports, over there. Sex, here. Love, WAAAYYY over there. This is why your typical male can absolutely loathe a woman but still want to screw her brains out. Furthermore, males don't experience immediate consequences of the sex act. They can't get pregnant. So males can afford to be sexually indiscriminate. Males don't even need a reason to have sex. Just a place and a compliant female.

The typical female, on the other hand, have a much harder time with separating sex and love. Oxytocin, the bonding hormone, is almost exclusively produced by females during and after the sex act.

Sex can be had without love. Sex is a romance killer when it takes place outside of marriage for women. Hell, it can even kill romance inside of marriage.

Love is something totally different. Love is something that many times is harder to demonstrate. It's doing things that you may not do otherwise. The husband getting up to go to work, especially on the weekend. The wife putting out when she doesn't feel like it(it's not the sex that's love, it's the putting out when she doesn't feel like it that is, among other reasons....).